One of the joys of parenting is celebrating your child’s milestones – first steps, first day of school, graduation, someday even marriage. When your child has a learning difference, these milestones often look different and come with far less celebration from the rest of the world.
Getting ready for a first dance can be a universal milestone though!
Every year in February, Night to Shine sweeps the world, bringing prom to individuals with special needs. It’s a joyful night, organized in a way that is inclusive and accessible. Each guest was accompanied by a helper at the door, so they could be guided through event.
This year was special for another reason. The pandemic and compounding economic crisis means that many of these individuals are isolated at home for long periods. We were thrilled to be able to welcome dozens of individuals with special needs – in small shifts for health safety – to a rolled-out red carpet and dance floor.
Parents were incredibly thankful to be able to celebrate their children, not just at home, but at a dance in their honor. Their children’s differences teach lessons in life that they might not receive otherwise.
“Nadine taught me true love, kindness, self- confidence, and tenderness,” said the mother of one guest with special needs, “As a message to other parents, please be patient, show them all the love and care they need, they are a blessing from God. Preserve it as much as possible.”
While neurotypical children might reach milestones at school more quickly, they may have farther to go when it comes to loving others. Shouldn’t we value all strengths equally?
Parents were incredibly thankful to be able to celebrate their children, not just at home, but at a dance in their honor. Their children’s differences teach lessons in life that they might not receive otherwise.
“These kids are pure and innocent; they don’t know hatred or hold any grudges. My daughter has taught me patience, love, and loyalty, said the mother of Hadeel, another guest, “Every child is a gift from God, and it’s our duty to accept and cherish them no matter what. It’s a test that we need to go through and learn from. These kids need lots of love, security, and selflessness. I’m beside her whatever she needs and dreams to achieve, she has all my support, till the end.”
Often the first to feel forgotten, special needs individuals need this time to remind them and their parents that their differences are strengths worth celebrating too. We are thankful for the SKILD team, local volunteers, international partners, and support of the Tim Tebow Foundation in making this day happen!
